Hello. Some of you may be wondering why exactly BV's mom hates me. I know you are. Well, here we go. The first time me and BV hung out, it was at a friends house, and we did something we probably shouldn't have, (not sexual, something illegal that I can't talk about here) and when his mom picked him up she could tell what we were doing. Then, about every other day or so he would sneak out of his house and I would pick him up to come hang out with me. A few times his mother caught him sneaking out and I had to bring him home. She thinks I am a bad influence on him because she thinks I am making him sneak out to come hang out with me, which I am not, it is his decision. I love him so much. He is coming home TOMORROW!!! I can not wait to see him. I am going to hold him FOREVER. Also today in 4th period I got called to my guidance counselor's office. I got in there not expecting anything really. I had no idea why. But then she was talking about bullying and things online getting out. And then I knew exactly what she was talking about. She said if I was being bullied then I needed to talk to her about it because it is not okay. I am not exactly sure how she found out, but it got to her. I think what happened was in art class people were asking me if I was gay and I said kinda. You know, because I am still not 100% sure. But anyway, then a couple of comments were made about it, and my teacher overheard it. So I am guessing that is how. Well, that is really it. I have to work at 5... HATE IT. But I have to make that money$$$. Okay. I am leaving now. Just letting you all know I may not be able to post everyday because I have school and work now, but I will do my best. If you have any questions for me about me or anything else I would be glad to answer them. Love
Andrew Bennett
Thursday, January 6, 2011
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Well Andrew, you are a responsible guy who goes to school and works at a job too so that should get you some respect in BV's mother's eyes. I'm guessing you guys were smoking a little grass and his mother smelled it on him. I won't be judgemental about some very occasional weed-smoking (I did my share way back when) but remember that habits can form and become addictive as the months and years pass and quitting any addiction is something you don't want to experience. And kiss up and reassure BV's mother that you are a good guy (be nice to her).
ReplyDelete-I think school counsellors are getting paranoid over gays being bullied in school and potential lawsuits, so they are trying to nip any problems in the bud. But really if some kids in school, who you are not close to, are being nosy about your sexuality then I don't think it is any of their business. Would you consider another kid's personal life any of your business if you don't know that person very well? Rather insulting I think.
-Yeah I know the feeling getting ready to go to work, but once you get there and get into it then it is not so bad, and it is nice to have some money in your pocket without being beholden to someone. bfn - Wayne :)
Yep, it's easier for parents to blame someone else rather than admit their child is no angel. Now that you are more-or-less out at school is she going to find out about that? Might be tricky...
ReplyDeleteAndrew,
ReplyDeleteI see you took the blog private. I appreciate the invite. It's a shame there's so much overreaction to something that should be a non-event. I'm sorry for all the drama.
I think Wayne is right; schools are getting serious about bullying and the like, so be glad they care enough to investigate. Too many sweep it under the carpet. But they shouldn't be telling you to stay in the closet. I mean, you can't!
It's a hell of a way to get outed. I don't know if you know Mirrorboy's story, but he got outed unexpectedly, too. The fallout was ungodly, so please stay strong and keep your head up!
Well good that BV is coming back. Please try to get back into his mother's good graces. Neither of you need to get in trubs by him sneaking out.
Let us know what we can do to help, if anything! We're here for you, buddy!
Peace <3
Jay