Friday, January 21, 2011

OKAYY

Okay guys. I may not be blogging as much as I use to anymore because I got in trouble last night. This is what happened. My mom let me use the car to go to work. She told me to call her from work to let her know when I was coming home. I did, however I stayed in the parking lot after work to talk to some of my co-workers. I ended up getting home about an hour after I would have and she flipped out on me and said that i did something and that I was in trouble and so she took my labtop, which I payed for in the first place, my phone is shut off already, she called the cops on me last night, and I can no longer use the car, and also she told me she called my work and told them that I quit. I don't know if that last one is true or not, but she said she did it. My life is pretty much over. Some of you are probably wondering, well if she took your labtop, then how are you blogging right now, Well, I went into her room, which she locked, it is sooo easy to get in there with a butter knife, and stole it back. She hid it in my step dads clothes droor. I don't know what her problem is, I didn't really do that much wrong. She said if I give you an inch you take a mile. She was screaming at me all night. She also was mad because there were no towels, and I had like 3 of them and she yelled at me for that too. I don't know, I love my mom, but she is not nice to me sometimes. So, I will not be blogging for a while maybe. I probably will Monday and Tuesday, but thats about it I think for a little while anyway, until she gives it back. Sorry guys, I screwed up. She has given me many chances and I screwed up again. :/

Love
Andrew Bennett
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  1. WayneJanuary 21, 2011 at 6:28 PM

    It sounds like your mother is somewhat over-the-top with the punishments, but you need to work on the part of your brain that thinks ahead and recognizes consequences. Just be more reliable. You should have called her back if you were going to stay that long. Parents do freak out if their teens are out late at night cos they figure they are up to no good. You need to prove otherwise and give her a chance to trust you. Remember also that your mother figures that she is the one responsible for discipline cos your stepfather does not want to be in the position of the 'hated' stepfather for punishing you. Give your stepfather a break cos it is tough for them sometimes. Your mother may be taking out some of her stresses on you and that is not fair. Try and talk and reason with her calmly and reassure her, and if she give an inch, don't take a mile! You have lots of company Andrew with screwing up; just ask your friends. It is important for teens to let their parents know where they are and when they will be home. They worry so be considerate and think ahead. Let things cool down and get your computer back (And sneaking around behind her back is not a good way to build trust). If you can be reliable and build trust, then your boundaries will gradually expand. Keep things calm this weekend! bfn - Wayne (I hope you can keep your job!)

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  2. AnonymousJanuary 21, 2011 at 11:01 PM

    Oh boy. Trubs, as Gabe would put it. I don't know what to tell you. I guess you have to get back into the "perfect son" routine. I can kind of see her point since you were an hour late (my rules were "call before we go to bed if you'll be late" - and this was before cells), so I would call. You might suggest that. I can't say it's an overreaction, because I don't know your whole story or hers either, but it does seem a bit extreme for an hour late...hope things work out. Be good. I'll be around when the sentence is up.

    Peace <3
    Jay

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