Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Interesting? or Confusing? Both...

So, on my way to work BV called me and we talked for about 20 minuets and this was the conversation. He was talking to me about his ex girlfriend and how his ex's bf wanted to beet his ass.. which wouldnt happen by the way because BV is a good fighter, and I would help him too, and he was asking me if I could get my friends to beet him up because he can't get in trouble because he has community service for something stupid he did a year ago, and I was like they won't, they don't really Like you. And he said quote "Just be like can you beet up JB for my..." ready for this?? "boyfriend." Yeah. he used the B word. I am not sure what to make of this. Can anyone help? Seeing how he has a gf, he called me his bf.. or called him My bf. Help would be nice because I am thinking some really weird thoughts. I agree, we are basically "going out" but we really haven't called it that. We have talked about it, but I am not sure what the outcome was because we never finished the conversation... HELP ME PLEASE!
Love
Andrew BennettP.S. He is coming over tonight.. <333
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3 comments:

  1. BillyJanuary 12, 2011 at 3:35 AM

    The cynic in me says he's using you, but it is not fair for me to judge him, so maybe this is the time to be a bit more positive about it. If you want to push the boundaries and get a clearer idea where you stand, try something sexual with him. At the very least it will trigger a discussion about how he sees the two of you. I mean, he calls you his boyfriend, he knows you're gay/bi, so he can hardly be surprised if you try something. Who knows what it might lead to...

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  2. AnonymousJanuary 12, 2011 at 8:59 AM

    At your ages, there is a lot of confusion as to who is what in a relationship. It sounds like BV is as confused as he can be. But gay or bi, if you two are together "officially", then you're his boyfriend. If he was with a girl before, she's his ex-girlfriend. You don't have to be exclusively gay to have a boyfriend. One thing is for sure, avoid the physical confrontations. They gain you nothing but unwanted attention.

    Peace <3
    Jay

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  3. WayneJanuary 12, 2011 at 11:31 AM

    Number one, avoid physical fights unless in self-defense cos you may become involved in the legal system which can be a long and drawn-out (and expensive!) process which hangs over your head for months on end. The ex's bf is just mouthing off. So does BV have a gf just for show or is he gay or bi-curious? I guess time will tell. He may have been using the 'boyfriend' term in a friend-who-is-a-boy sense. Do keep your options open for other boyfriend possibilities in case BV does not work out sexually. But always good to have a str8 friend who is gay-friendly and that is a real gem. bfn - Wayne (and help BV stay out of trouble)

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