Okay. My last post I meant to put this in, but i didn't. Here we go. I have been nice to his mother, with the most respect possible. I have tried to be her friend on facebook, she didnt accept it. I also sent her a personal appology from me to her via message on facebook, however I got no response. She is a young mother, just 14 when she had BV. That is sooo young. She is only 30 now. So, I have been nice to her and have tried to be friends with her, but she just won't have it. Him sneaking out is the only way we can really see eachother, other than school, because his mom never lets us hang out. So I don't know what will happen. She knows he sneaks out, yet she doesn't really do too much. Also my mom knows the difficult situation I am in and she lets him come over at night time when he sneaks out, and my mom knows he sneaks out. I think that is really cool of my mom. She knows how it is to not be able to see the person you love. I really do Love him. I know I said just friends before, but i want so much more than that. I don't know what is going to happen because he is single right now, i think whatever happens happens and thats how it will go. I will most likely get my heart broken but i hope i don't. I will post tomorrow after I see BV.!
Love
Andrew Bennett
Thursday, January 6, 2011
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If BV is close to your age then he should have a certain measure of freedom concerning his friends. You'd think she would rather he hang around a decent guy like you than some idiots who are always getting into trouble. But Andrew you have done the right thing by extending the olive branch and just continue to be nice and respectful even if she isn't, and you will have the moral high ground.
ReplyDelete-Remember not to place all of your self-worth on the love of one person cos friends and lovers do come and go especially when you are young. Some are short-term and others are around for the long haul. But see where it goes. bfn - Wayne :)
WOW! Wayne is soooo right! A wise man!
ReplyDeleteYou've done all you can. It sounds as if she is overprotective, which is sort of normal for young mothers. Thank goodness your mother is understanding and on your side.
Just an idea: what if your mother tried to talk to BV's mom? Totally crazy?
Keep strong, know that you are OK. And since BV is trying his best to see you, I think you're both OK.
Peace <3
Jay