K guys. I finally figured it all out. Me and BV. Just friends forever more. This time away from him really has opened my eyes to what I really want. I can't be bothering with someone like him who is not sure of himself always screwing with my head. So my feelings have taken a different setting with him. I still love him and he will always be my best friend, but thats all he will ever be to me because i think trying anything more would ruin our friendship anyway. But Just thought i would tell everyone that i finally figured all this mess up. Also i just talked to a girl RU, who i havnt seen in probably 5 years. Since Middle school. She just told me she is a lesbian. And I think that is great. She is starting a blog tomorrow and once i get the URL i will add it here if she wants me to. Please help her through her journey of coming out with advice and other things such as that. I would really appreciate that and so would she as im sure. Thanks All. With Love
Andrew Bennett
Monday, December 27, 2010
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That's the sensible, rational approach, Andrew. It might take some will-power, though, when he's back and pressing those buttons.
ReplyDeleteMy mantra to young people like yourself is "friendship first". It sounds like you've made a wise decision. A BFF is so important in your life, and throwing in the burden of "all the rest" can place that relationship on tenuous ground.
ReplyDeleteWell good that you reconnected with another friend! That's always nice, and you can't have too many.
Peace <3
Jay
I kind of hate to deal in absolutes; there are always possibilities in this crazy life where unexpected things happen. Lots of gay-inclined guys pretend to be straight. Of course you don't want to lose a good friend over unwanted sexual advances; if he is str8 and chases girls consistently well then no sense flogging a dead horse. (how's that for an old saying lol?) bfn - Wayne :)
ReplyDeleteI am really glad that you were able to discern what it is that he needs to be in your life. It can be really hard some time to be able to make this decision, but when you are able to figure this out sooner it can make a lot of difference in your life. I am glad that your friend was able to come out and find herself. I have noticed that the generation behind of me is starting to be a lot more open to their sexual preference then when I was a freshman or a sophomore in high school. I wonder if were you and her live if there is a teen GLBT youth group. Here we have One-In-Teen. Maybe it might help both of you with your coming out process. I personal only went to the group here twice, but I have friends that were having a harder time coming out then I was and they went all the time and it really helped them out.
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