Tuesday, March 1, 2011

BV... Am i completely done??

Yes. I am completely done with BV. I feel 100% different now about him! It feels good to know that I am not like atatched to him anymore. I mean, I kind of dont even want to be his friend. Is that bad or wrong? Because he always talks about his ex gf and how oh now we are dating again and we are going to be together this time for a while, even though thats what happened last time, and we love eachother, but we hate eachother.. NOOOO!! I can not deal with that crap anymore! I don't care! It has gotten to the point about 20 mins ago he called me and i didnt even want to pick up the phone! I am completely done this is CRAP. I don't know how to tell him i dont want to be his friend and that I found someone else.. which i may have.. idk.. Oh I looked up NC law and it said 4 years is the difference for stat rape.. so I would be good. But anyways, yeah. How should I tell him I dont even want to be his friend anymore? Should I just gradually stop talking to him until it is done with or should i just be like HEY look... I dont want to be your friend anymore because of all the stupid drama u have and talk about! Or what? Please let me know. I need to know what to do HELP ME PLEASE! Love Andrew Bennett <33Oh yeah and PA is almost 15.. i am 17.. barely. What do you think about that age difference? J/w Thanks!
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  1. BillyMarch 2, 2011 at 4:47 AM

    Wikipedia says you've got a 3 year window in NC, but like Wayne said, people are going to think you're preying on him. That's the main worry. Other than that try it and see. If you've got enough in common it might work out. People mature at different rates. So it might work out, or it might not.

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  2. WayneMarch 2, 2011 at 5:33 PM

    A couple of years difference is no biggie; if you become good friends you can see where it goes. But ffs stay friends with BV. Even if he is str8 it is unfair to reject him because he is not gay. It is also nice to have some str8 friends who are gay friendly as the years go by. It is perfectly normal also to have friends who are younger and older. Make sure any sexual activity you have is discrete and consensual; people are very nosy and gossipy about sex and it is really none of their business. You should be proud that you are holding down a job and getting through school too. bfn - Wayne :)

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  3. AnonymousMarch 2, 2011 at 6:18 PM

    Maturity is more important than age, but it would be hard for anyone to find a problem with a 14+ and just-17 being together, though if you start as friends, and let it develop, things will be fine. I can't imagine there's any coercion involved, so here's the key word: discretion. If you are discrete, you will be fine. And don't do anything that goes against your personal morals. That's the most important.

    As for BV, don't ditch him, but I think you can say "look, man, let's talk about something else" when he brings up gfs, etc. Don't ditch people who are friends, even if you're having a rough patch.

    Peace <3
    Jay

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