Thursday, April 5, 2012
Another day at the workplace
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<3 Andrew Bennett
Hello, Andrew! Good to hear from you. Glad life is going along well. I hope you have a great time on your trip. Meeting new family members is always exciting.
ReplyDeleteI think there probably as many levels of sexual attraction as there are people. Some of us are exclusively attracted to males, others exclusively to females, and filling in the HUGE gap in the middle are the folks who are comfortable with both sexes, maybe one more than the other, but both to be sure. Nothing wrong with that.
And, there's no reason why you should have necessarily figured this out by now. 18 isn't a magic age that instantly gives you wisdom, or even insight, or anything else except a lot of legal rights and responsibilities. Many of us go a long time before we figure things out, or admit to ourselves our own suspicions about where one's orientation lies.
I think the best solution is keep living life, make lots of friends, and one of these days it is likely you will meet someone who knocks your socks off and turns into the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. And you know what? It won't matter a bit what their gender is, as long as you can be comfortable in who you are with this special person.
Your friends here certainly won't think less of you if it turns out to be a girl, or a guy.
Peace <3
Jay
Of course it is possible to be bisexual. The thing is though, when it comes time to settle down and have a family it is much easier to do by getting married to a woman. Since this should be a life-long commitment, especially when kids are involved, most bisexual men end up appearing straight to everyone, especially if they are faithful to their wife. Even though in their youth they did stuff with guys as well.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it all comes down to what the sexual urge is directed at, and the test of time. For example if a 'bisexual' guy gets married to a girl, then maintaining fidelity may be twice as difficult if guys are an additional temptation (and, sexually, we always want what is forbidden!). Finding a partner for whom you have the strongest sexual urge may be best if you want to avoid the expensive nastiness of divorce court in middle age. Summer is coming so hang with some friends and see how things go; sexuality is a realization (and being honest with yourself) not a decision. - Wayne :)
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